One of the number one reasons people don’t communicate truthfully is because they fear loss of connection.

Let’s sit with that belief.

“If I tell the truth I will lose connection.”

What is connection then?

How can there be connection when there is an absence of truth?

Absence of truth is the definition of disconnection.

Absence of truth exists in the layer of the mind’s control.

Truth is in the layer of what is.

You are not in connection if you are not in the “what is” layer of reality.

You are in attachment.

You are in fantasy.

You are relating to your mind’s idea and trying to rigidly preserve a fantasy.

When you omit the truth you are lying.

When you fail to say what’s true in the moment you are lying.

And why ? Because you are (usually) afraid you will lose something.

Saying the Truth may not seem “safe” but there is no safety in survival

The only true safety is in absolute and total trust and surrender.

This may not be something you can hear right now.

You may even want to argue with me.

You may want to tell me about your trauma responses and how they prevent you from speaking the Truth.

Ok.

That’s where you are.

That ok.

But it doesn’t change the facts of this teaching.

If we live life from our inner child wounds we have suffered we will never be able to tell the Truth.

As children it was part of our development to manipulate to get what we needed.

As adults we have other tools available to us.

Every time someone fails to tell me the truth, I lose the opportunity to make a different decision.

You remove someone else’s choice when you don’t tell the truth.

Which is exactly why you didn’t tell the Truth in the first place.

Not telling the Truth makes it about you.

It fully omits the respect of Sovereignty of the other person.

Survival is the toxic mimic of life and living.

Nothing happens in survival.

It’s like a detached, dissociated illusion of reality.

This is where ideas masquerade as Truth.

Where needs and desires are not represented but are pulled for with sneaky manipulative behaviors.

We are not here to merely survive.

We are here to be alive, led by the perfection of the thread of Truth as it unfolds.

Removing that is not what is for us.

Bringing in what is.

One of the number one reasons people don’t communicate truthfully is because they fear loss of connection.

Let’s sit with that belief.

“If I tell the truth I will lose connection.”

What is connection then?

How can there be connection when there is an absence of truth?

Absence of truth is the definition of disconnection.

Absence of truth exists in the layer of the mind’s control.

Truth is in the layer of what is.

You are not in connection if you are not in the “what is” layer of reality.

You are in attachment.

You are in fantasy.

You are relating to your mind’s idea and trying to rigidly preserve a fantasy.

When you omit the truth you are lying.

When you fail to say what’s true in the moment you are lying.

And why ? Because you are (usually) afraid you will lose something.

Saying the Truth may not seem “safe” but there is no safety in survival

The only true safety is in absolute and total trust and surrender.

This may not be something you can hear right now.

You may even want to argue with me.

You may want to tell me about your trauma responses and how they prevent you from speaking the Truth.

Ok.

That’s where you are.

That ok.

But it doesn’t change the facts of this teaching.

If we live life from our inner child wounds we have suffered we will never be able to tell the Truth.

As children it was part of our development to manipulate to get what we needed.

As adults we have other tools available to us.

Every time someone fails to tell me the truth, I lose the opportunity to make a different decision.

You remove someone else’s choice when you don’t tell the truth.

Which is exactly why you didn’t tell the Truth in the first place.

Not telling the Truth makes it about you.

It fully omits the respect of Sovereignty of the other person.

Survival is the toxic mimic of life and living.

Nothing happens in survival.

It’s like a detached, dissociated illusion of reality.

This is where ideas masquerade as Truth.

Where needs and desires are not represented but are pulled for with sneaky manipulative behaviors.

We are not here to merely survive.

We are here to be alive, led by the perfection of the thread of Truth as it unfolds.

Removing that is not what is for us.

Bringing in what is.