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One of the immature patterns I see people present with (yes like a symptom of disease) is showing up conditionally, but specifically needing the other partner to provide some assurances first. This can look a lot of different ways: * I need him to change so that I can … * I need him to […]

1) The people who got defensive confirmed my observation with adolescent characters and nastiness. The need to dominate, tear down, dismiss name call and belittle me personally. Those were revealing. 2) People who clearly don’t know me thought: – I’m afraid of poly because I am afraid of sex – I must be a “frigid […]

I’ve been meditating on this because I have a number of women in my sphere who write about this and I wanted to add my perspective as it relates to my own partnership and the way I see this play out in the world. The first question is what is the PURPOSE of “PROTECTION & […]